"Are There Any Good Men?" That Was the Question...

Yes there are good men! There are good men who are single, there are good men who are taken and just for the record there is no shortage of good men. The question isn't are there any good men out there. The question is would a good woman recognize one and would she be willing to be that good woman for him no matter what his station is in life at the initial encounter? You see some good woman judge a man on his present station in life, never taking in consideration that if he's a good man his station and situation will change. That's how some good women miss out on good men. The funny thing is, everybody hasn't always been who they are, where they are and what they are.

Anyway...I'm sure with all of the playa-playa mentality as well as the pimp attitude and the down low brothers it is difficult to identify a good man just on appearence sometimes, but we do exist! The pressures of our jobs and responsibilities as well as other factors creates a shield, a distraction if you will, that keeps us so caught up in our daily responsibilities and problems, which is why we loose sight of the obvious. We overlook whats right in front of us. We can't see whats good for us, that which is most likely delivered to us by the Creator. The reason for that is the enemy is good at what he does and that is to divide and conquer and create distractions. If the enemy is successful at keeping good spiritual minded people separated from each other, half his job is already done and that is to create doubt, which causes one to ask "are there any good men, or women for that matter?

I know that some of us have observe two people in relationships with one being good, but notice such a negative attitude from the other partner. Then we ask ourselves why are they even staying with that person, because if I were their man/woman and they treated me as good as he/she treats them, then they would never have a problem with me. The bad somehow connects with the good. But every now and then that person who displays that negative attitude isn't a bad person. They have found themselves in a relationship that they don't know how to resolve and become very disenchanted until they appear to be a sour grape, when in fact they are a good person. They won't do what it will take to move on to be happy. So they look like a person with a negative attitude without a clue, that's the perception they are displaying.

So I close with this. Again, there are good men! We pray someday to have that good woman! You may ask, what makes us good men? As good men we realize that we are not perfect, and have, and will make mistakes, but we have learned from our mistakes. We have matured, we have weathered some storms, we have been taught to respect and honor the female species. We take responsibility for being a real man, we love life, we either accept what life has to offer or we make the necessary adjustment to improve our situation. Either way we look for the positive and overcome the negative. We are very much aware of who our Creator is, what He means to us and how He must be a part of all of our relationships. That's how we know!

Yes, good men do exist! We come in all colors, shapes, sizes and incomes. We love what we love, we have learned how to love, therefore we know how to love. We love freely! We love with a Godly authority! And a lot of times we ask ourselves "why hasn't my good woman been delivered to me, a good man? " But then, maybe, I answered that question already! Distractions!

A Good Man
Ronald Reginald King
http://www.ronaldreginaldking.com/